How Do I Choose My Wedding Ring?

How Do I Choose My Wedding Ring?

Hi there, Reader;

I have to tell you this question took me by surprise. I tried to think back to how my husband and I choose wedding rings and then thought to myself, there wasn't any scientific or practical way. We just did.  I can make some suggestions.

As I researched men's wedding rings I discovered things I didn't know. Some men like their animal known and wear that as a wedding ring. Others prefer just a band of gold. Whatever your taste in wedding rings it is something one should discuss with the bride to become your wife.

Items you might want to talk about:

1. Diamond or No Diamonds, Gem Stones
2. Platinum, gold, white gold, silver, black, medals or no medals
3. Size
4. Do you want it to be a surprise or not?
5. What do you value most.

I know and understand that woman....I assure you we know what you think woman want. After all, she is the one you choose for marriage. You have to let her in at some point. If your the type of guy that doesn't want to wear a wedding ring. Maybe, you're the type of guy that knows even though you own a wedding ring you will won't keep the commitment. Then, be honest before you get married. It might be a deal breaker for her. If you are mature enough to commit to marriage your mature enough to tell her your truth.

If your truth is unacceptable to her. Then she is mature enough to accept the unacceptable. Meaning, it's better to walk away then to commit to someone and think you can change them. You have to know, love, understand what it is your getting into before you commit. The thing is that most people look at marriage as just between the couple. It is at first. Then you have children and it involves a who lot of people. The wedding planning processes involves a whole lot of people. Therefore, no secrets means it's best to talk, before your secrets are made public.

For men who need to hear it from another man.

You both need to talk about it. Decide together and proceed to the future together.

Best Wishes to the Bride! Congratulations to the Groom!



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Unemployment !

Hi there, Reader;

As many of you know and understand since 2003 I have owned a meeting and Event company. However, since I'm a single mom, who has elderly people to watch over. Life isn't always easy.  This is not a woo is me blog or feel sorry for me it's my reality. This is the second time in this time that I have been unemployed. I have always had to have two employments and continue my education in the ever fast changing event world. As technology changes so does the way people interact with one another.

I am highly impressed with what unemployment is trying to do for its people. I know it sounds silly or ridiculous that I would be impressed with a government institutions with all that is happening in the world. What is talked about. The North County San Diego office is very good at helping it's people. From the little things like getting your resume online to making sure you recieve your card from Bank America to get paid. Here is what also expressed me, they cared enough to ask me since I was unemployed did I have enough to eat. More than my friends of many years have asked. When hard times hit, that's when one knows who a friend and who was just there for the good times. Good wife, right?

I hope you never have to experience what I have as a woman business owner. With technology being everywhere the world changed and it changed the lives of many. If your one of those who followed my family and I then you know some of our struggles. Like many Americans the reality of aging parents, teenagers, college students and the ever changing high expectations of self sufficientcy we place on our youth. It's nice to know, there are still a few agency were we can get assistance when we need it.

First you can get your computer skills checked by several agencies that will certify you for typing skills some are for a fee and some are free. Once certified you wil know which ones you qualify for. I'll write a list below.

Second : Are you hungry? Apply for what use to be food stamps is now called CalFresh. There are workshops you can attend every Monday.

Third: you have to establish identity. Citizensship and employment to recieve unemployment. US Passport or US Card. The list is lengthy.

Fourth: Register with North County Career Center for resume writing, employment search and motivation.

Fifth: iI also have a list of agencies you can contact if you need help.

Sixth: Apply for employment or to enhance your job search with www.caljobs.ca.gov.

I'll have all of this posted for you in the next day or so. Til then, get ready...the goal in life is to live a Happy, healthy, productive life.

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In addition, my thoughts and opinions change from time to time I consider this a necessary consequence of having an open mind.

This weblog is intended to provide a semi-permanent point in time snapshot and manifestation of the various memes running around my brain, and as such any thoughts and opinions expressed within out-of-date posts may not the same, nor even similar, to those I may hold today.

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What is required?

Hi there , Reader;

I sometimes think of the difficulties of being a man in today's world. what is expected? What is required? My profession deals with a lot of young people making life changing decisions and what I have discovered is that it is is scary thing to wed. 

What is required?

1. Do what is right? What is that anyway? It means that as a young man you would have to do your best to provide for yourself and anyone else who you may bring into the world. Therefore you are required to provide for them,

2. Press on. Press on for the goals of which he created you for. This means that you keep achieving what is for you. You plan what is right for you and keep going towards that goal.

3. FIght the Good fight. You don't  have to fight everyone else's fight you have to fight yours. May your success known to those that love you. Also tell them why you are succeeding and part of it should be because you love them.

4. In the bible there are several goals before a young man and since biblically a woman isn't suppose to preach to men I will jus teeth you look those up. The main part is to know the difference between the world and what he wants for you. 

5. The wife of your youth might not be the one you married therefore, you should know the difference and know that one might not love the other, however they might therefore it is up to you if they meet or not,

That's the best advice I can give you at this moment. Consider your choices and seek counsel if you don't know what is right.