Faith, Religion, Cultural Do I Care?

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I remember when writing in your bible was a sin. Then everyone agreed that it was a better way to study His word. Now we have a company dedicated to making things for young people to spend their money on. Does drawing in your bible make it come to life? Make it more beautiful? Make it more true? 

I learned that there are two types of study. The one that is in your quiet time. When his word applies to your soul. The Pastors sermons, what he wants you to learn, and then woman's bible study. That was always Fellowship time with other woman. When you learn the word has different meanings in each others life, but there is only one true Lord Jesus Christ.

My question is how do you know the difference of His word speaking to you when you have a company telling you something different. please understand I am all for free enterprise and people making money. The Lord puts his illustration on your heart does this conflict with the paintings and drawings on your bible. 

I am not putting you down or questioning motives, I'm asking sincere question.

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Easter Sunday

How many times have you been wished Happy Easter this year 2017?  I have thought of many things in my live never how many times I have received a Happy Easter from someone.   This year almost three years after the death of my child Dustin Kamon Nov, 2014 I can't help myself thinking how his friends are doing?  They don't call or visit anymore. They don't know to say. They don't want to remember. I don't blame them. They have to go on with their lives.

My son who helped as many people as he could with the word. Who in his own innocents was percecuted more than a mom could take. Is now  in my thoughts every day. Never to be forgotten. If I compare him to Jesus, I would be mocked, laughed at and told how stupid I am. If I don't talk about what it is like then I am not living out my Christain faith. So, this year I am writing about what it is like.

There is nothing pretty about being crucified on clavery. There was no choir singing on earth, it was just a bunch of bullies beating up a men. Percecution, redicule, using word that embarrass, hurt. weapons of shame guilt. From a moms point of view. She hid trying not to see, having to see. Crying helplessly. Feeling his pain over and over again. That's the reality of Calavery. Broken lives, bloodshed, tears. That's the reality of a broken heart that will never mend and a live stolen from earth to heaven too young. I'm sure Mary felt that way. She knew the reason and purpose. Understood it but didn't. I am sure many moms who have had their child taken from them feel that way. I do. Too young.  Why?  Did Jesus go through all that? "They" wanted. They wanted from Jesus the things that wasn't in his job decription. What was His job discription. It's in the bible. If you were to modernize what He was on earth to do, what was he to do? What would you do at work if something is not in your job discription and someone was asking you to do it.


That's not what Easter is about is it? 

Easter story is about what he accomplished that day for all of us wh believe in Him. What book is it about? 

Clavery means:

Easter means:

What book in the bible talks about it the most?




Someone Else Reality Doesn't Have Affect Yours 


Hi there, Reader;

I was doing one of the things I love the most, reading when I came across this image and thought. I can use this to make my reality know to others. My reality isn't like others, I think mainly because I grew up with a very prayerful dad. He would wake up, get dressed, have breakfast and before leaving for work he would open his bible and pray. Sometimes I would see him spending hours just standing and reading the word. There were times when I would catch him crying and asking for forgiveness. What daughters heart doesn't melt the minute she sees her father knowing he is not perfect in the eyes of God. That's what I grew up with a Father that prayed every morning and knew what grace is really about. Know wild horses running in someones mind.

When tragity hit my own life I knew it would be alright. I also knew I would never be the same. That's okay, were not suppose to be the say, yet we are. Believers are always children before the Lord, that's were our prayers are heard, like children before Christ.





Sometimes in life we are forced into someone's reality. It might be because you have to take care of an aging parent, or your sister is ill . (Yes, I have a real sister born of the same dad of the same marriage and yes she took ill and is so skinny I worry) I was called to help. I can't deal with her reality. Those are her choices and she has her own family. However, I am as a daughter obligated to help my own mother. She has since married another man. This tragedy after tragedy hit me so hard it affected marriage, family and finance Reality of others can sometime hit you in an unexpected way. My husband had not planned we'd both have to help our aging parents. First his now mine. After all, we were the baby of the family, we had other siblings our parents had chosen to be responsible. One thinks to oneself it won't happen due to responsibility. It did. Tragic things happen to people. Whatever, the reason. Here are somethings to keep you focused on truth. The truth that you learned, not someone else truth. If you don't know the truth of the bible then I suggest you pick one up. It's not the photograph pictured above.

1. Someone else reality doesn't have to be your truth. Stick with your truth.  What was your truth from childhood is still your truth today. You just have more life experience. Meaning if you prayed, meditated, contemplated, you can still do that today. No one can stop you from having your faith. You don't have to break apart because everyone else is.

2. Doing the right thing isn't a ways the easiest thing. Sometimes, it hurts your name and reputation. Although it shouldn't it does. Perception of others. It's something you don't need to explain to people. It also isn't something you have to share, justify or even teach others.

3. Being true doesn't always look like it. I say this because being true might be not letting anyone tell you what to do. How does one help, when your help is what they want, yet they don't know how to accept it. They ask and don't receive what you explain or listen. They think they still know better, however they don't.

4. Plan the best you can for the future, it won't always be what His best is, however as they say, "To thine own self be true". In being true to yourself, you will find "His" best for you.

5. Stick with what you know, meaning let your yes be yes and your no be no. Trust, your truth, Let Go and Let God. My dads, favorite saying was if God is for us, who can be against us. God is always for His children. It just doesn't always look like we hope.

6. You have a future. A Hope. Do your best today and you will be okay tomorrow.

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UP For The Challenge


Hi there,

I was looking through post in on my facebook page business page when I came across a picture of a Woman in her wedding dress, with a little girl dressed like her. Both of them looking at each other.  I am writing my next book and as I looked at this picture all I really saw was the love between them.

Then I thought about it, so I had to tweet all my positive thinking favorite preachers, teachers to find out if that wedding would have ever been accepted at their church. Now men, here is the challenge. I know some would accept and some wouldn't. As a mom of young men, I can't help to think about what is like from a man viewpoint to get a girl, young woman pregnant. We all here and watch the TV drama shows about unwed parents, single moms, the horror of it all. Do men only see the horror of it or do they see the beauty of life?

Do they understand the difference in a choice for the woman and her family? Do they take the responsibility for the life you have created? I added scripture to the preachers question in the hope of understanding, knowing that men always asked if it is there child. I have had the pleasure of praying with men of integrity. Where is it men draw the line. At what point does integrity cross abuse.

Woman who get pregnant fall into all types of stereotypes. Get accused of all types of things. We accept it because what other choice is there. We only the choice to life our lives out. Although I wasn't single when I got pregnant I am a single mom and know the difference between a man who helps woman and a man who just want to beat the woman up spiritually, emotionally or physically. I know the difference between a man who really believes and one who doesn't.  There are those that will empower the woman, and those that  take away the power.

My question is and my challenge to men before they wed is.

1. If in doubt, take a paternity test. It may cause problems in your relationship, however you will never doubt the child is yours. Yes, it is a trust issue.  You as a man have physical power a woman doesn't. Force is not acceptable!  If she doesn't want to be with you after she doubted her accept it!

2.  When you play you pay. Having sex with a woman always brings the possible of pregnancy. Even in one night stand. This once is forever a truth.

3. What does Faith, Religion, Culture have to do with it.

     a. Faith, you either have it in knowing the woman you are sleeping with or you don't.
     b. Religion, Did you ask her what she felt about having children before you had sex with her?
     c. Culture, Her culture or upbringing has a great deal to with with how she will feel about how pregnancy before marriage. Will it be a blessing to her family or same?

Now before you ask her all the questions ask yourself the questions before you have sex with the woman.

1. What does your Faith tell you about having sex with the woman and getting her pregnant?
2. What does your religion say to you about children out of wedlock, single mothers and how you are suppose to treat them.
3. What if her father isn't alive to ask him all the questions you need to are you man enough to take on that responsibility?
4. Culturally, will yours mix with hers or will their be a battle all your life? If there's a battle how will you both handle it or deal with it. Will you stand together and fight or will you choose each others birth culture creating a battle in itself.

Woman as men to be men of integrity. To take responsibility for their actions. There is no doubt a woman has to take responsibility in this situation for her action. No matter what is chosen it will be looked at as the wrong choice by someone. What or whom will be helping her make her decision.

Now my challenge to you, single men who want to wed. Know yourself before you wed.  Knowing yourself is the first step to maturity.

Faith, Religion, Culture all play a part in "Wed", why because it plays a part on how your life choices will be make.











How is Faith, Religion, Cultural Difference?

Hi there,

I know what a silly thought that Faith, Religion, Culture are different. Right? First, let me explain something. In each culture there is all of these. At least this is what I was taught. Some are to be understood, some are to be stayed away from. The most important thing as a man is understanding that you might be held accountable for things you would rather not be. Woman face the same thing. Sometimes, there is a lack of understanding. That is why I am attempting to help, although I have to confess, I don't have the extensive knowledge I wish I did. What I do know is that I trust, I know the truth and "His" protection is Sovereign over my life.

         Faith: define:

  1. complete trust or confidence in someone or something.
    "this restores one's faith in politicians"
    synonyms:trustbeliefconfidenceconvictionMore
    antonyms:mistrust
  2.      strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.
    synonyms:religionchurchsectdenomination, (religious) persuasion, (religious) belief, ideologycreedteachingdoctrine More
    • a system of religious belief.
      plural noun: faiths
      "the Christian faith"
    • a strongly held belief or theory.
      "the faith that life will expand until it fills the universe"


  3. Religion defined:

noun
noun: religion
  1. the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods.
    "ideas about the relationship between science and religion"
    synonyms:faithbeliefworshipcreedMore
    • a particular system of faith and worship.
      plural noun: religions
      "the world's great religions"
    • a pursuit or interest to which someone ascribes supreme importance.
      "consumerism is the new religion"
Origin
Middle English (originally in the sense ‘life under monastic vows’): from Old French, or from Latin religio(n-) ‘obligation, bond, reverence,’ perhaps based on Latin religare ‘to bind.’


Culture Defined:

cul·ture
ˈkəlCHər/
noun
noun: culture
  1. 1.
    the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.
    "20th century popular culture"
    synonyms:the arts, the humanities, intellectual achievement; More
  2. 2.
    BIOLOGY
    the cultivation of bacteria, tissue cells, etc., in an artificial medium containing nutrients.
    "the cells proliferate readily in culture"
    • a preparation of cells obtained from a culture.
      "the bacterium was isolated in two blood cultures"
    • the cultivation of plants.
      "this variety of lettuce is popular for its ease of culture"
      synonyms:cultivationfarmingMore
verb
BIOLOGY
verb: culture; 3rd person present: cultures; past tense: cultured; past participle:cultured; gerund or present participle: culturing
  1. 1.
    maintain (tissue cells, bacteria, etc.) in conditions suitable for growth.
Origin
Middle English (denoting a cultivated piece of land): the noun from French culture or directly from Latin cultura ‘growing, cultivation’; the verb from obsolete French culturer or medieval Latin culturare, both based on Latin colere ‘tend, cultivate’ (see cultivate). In late Middle English the sense was ‘cultivation of the soil’ and from this (early 16th century) arose ‘cultivation (of the mind, faculties, or manners)’; sense 1 of the noun dates from the early 19th century.


Culture defined:

cul·ture
ˈkəlCHər/
noun
noun: culture
  1. 1.
    the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.
    "20th century popular culture"
    synonyms:the arts, the humanities, intellectual achievement; More
  2. 2.
    BIOLOGY
    the cultivation of bacteria, tissue cells, etc., in an artificial medium containing nutrients.
    "the cells proliferate readily in culture"
    • a preparation of cells obtained from a culture.
      "the bacterium was isolated in two blood cultures"
    • the cultivation of plants.
      "this variety of lettuce is popular for its ease of culture"
      synonyms:cultivationfarmingMore
verb
BIOLOGY
verb: culture; 3rd person present: cultures; past tense: cultured; past participle:cultured; gerund or present participle: culturing
  1. 1.
    maintain (tissue cells, bacteria, etc.) in conditions suitable for growth.
Origin
Middle English (denoting a cultivated piece of land): the noun from French culture or directly from Latin cultura ‘growing, cultivation’; the verb from obsolete French culturer or medieval Latin culturare, both based on Latin colere ‘tend, cultivate’ (see cultivate). In late Middle English the sense was ‘cultivation of the soil’ and from this (early 16th century) arose ‘cultivation (of the mind, faculties, or manners)’; sense 1 of the noun dates from the early 19th century.


cul·ture
ˈkəlCHər/
noun
noun: culture
  1. 1.
    the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.
    "20th century popular culture"
    synonyms:the arts, the humanities, intellectual achievement; More
  2. 2.
    BIOLOGY
    the cultivation of bacteria, tissue cells, etc., in an artificial medium containing nutrients.
    "the cells proliferate readily in culture"
    • a preparation of cells obtained from a culture.
      "the bacterium was isolated in two blood cultures"
    • the cultivation of plants.
      "this variety of lettuce is popular for its ease of culture"
      synonyms:cultivationfarmingMore
verb
BIOLOGY
verb: culture; 3rd person present: cultures; past tense: cultured; past participle:cultured; gerund or present participle: culturing
  1. 1.
    maintain (tissue cells, bacteria, etc.) in conditions suitable for growth.
Origin
Middle English (denoting a cultivated piece of land): the noun from French culture or directly from Latin cultura ‘growing, cultivation’; the verb from obsolete French culturer or medieval Latin culturare, both based on Latin colere ‘tend, cultivate’ (see cultivate). In late Middle English the sense was ‘cultivation of the soil’ and from this (early 16th century) arose ‘cultivation (of the mind, faculties, or manners)’; sense 1 of the noun dates from the early 19th century.



Culture Defined:
noun
noun: culture
  1. 1.
    the arts and other manifestations of human intellectual achievement regarded collectively.
    "20th century popular culture"
    synonyms:the arts, the humanities, intellectual achievement; More
  2. 2.
    BIOLOGY
    the cultivation of bacteria, tissue cells, etc., in an artificial medium containing nutrients.
    "the cells proliferate readily in culture"
    • a preparation of cells obtained from a culture.
      "the bacterium was isolated in two blood cultures"
    • the cultivation of plants.
      "this variety of lettuce is popular for its ease of culture"
      synonyms:cultivationfarmingMore
verb
BIOLOGY
verb: culture; 3rd person present: cultures; past tense: cultured; past participle:cultured; gerund or present participle: culturing
  1. 1.
    maintain (tissue cells, bacteria, etc.) in conditions suitable for growth.
Origin
Middle English (denoting a cultivated piece of land): the noun from French culture or directly from Latin cultura ‘growing, cultivation’; the verb from obsolete French culturer or medieval Latin culturare, both based on Latin colere ‘tend, cultivate’ (see cultivate). In late Middle English the sense was ‘cultivation of the soil’ and from this (early 16th century) arose ‘cultivation (of the mind, faculties, or manners)’; sense 1 of the noun dates from the early 19th century.

As you can see not all definitions will apply to the woman you are about to marry. It is best to get to know her and maybe these topics will help you to get to know her better. Nationality and Culture tend to be sensitive subjects. Especially with parents. There is a song out and the line states "You don't have to be so rude, I am going to marry her anyway!" Just know that rudeness is his way of protecting her! Know what is right and truth. You don't want to marry problems you want to marry the woman. Why make an enemy of "Him".

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