Don't Pray To Be Wed!

Hi there, Men;

Isn't if funny how you can hear a preacher's sermon and it inspires you to write a blog. Here it is men.

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Don't Pray for your wife. This I tell you because the truth is no woman wants to be prayed for or taken care of marry a man who would be responsible enough to take charge and pray for their future. It would imply that you knew what was best for you and your family. It would also mean you want more than just to be wed, you would want a marriage.


" No, please don't tell woman this though that you have prayed for your wife since you were a child. You, should tell her the truth, your mother has been praying for your wife since the day of conception. If it were you it would mean you had a personal relationship with the "Savior" and then she might question your behavior. She might think that your a mama's boy and then wonder how well you are taking care of your mother, mom, wife. Wife....why would a woman wonder that? Read your bible or she just might ask questions about your behavior, lifestyle and your view points.  Do you think she would want to marry you? Either way you can call me and I will still plan your wedding. Mainly, because it is my employment. However, she might just think about the way you treat your mother is the way you will treat her.  Then she will judge you and walk away. Breaking your heart? That is if you are not respecting your mother...she represents your belief about woman and your respect for them. 

The other option is she can marry you make a great prenup then walk away. With all seriousness, it is about finding the right woman. There are definitely things you want to look for.

1. Interest: Things you enjoy doing together. Not just things you spend money on, the common everyday things. Reading, bicycling, watching movies, news, dining, cooking, gardening, etc. You're an intelligent man you're reading this blog. 
2. Finances: Who has better control of it. Do you balance your checkbook? Are you a spontaneous shopper?
3. Goals: What are your personal goals. Careers, Personal Hopes and Dreams?
4. Are you both of the same belief? Culture or Nationality? Faith? 
5. What is you or her attitudes in times that you are happy, or sad? Do you met in the middle. 
6. How will you support each other?

I know what is different than what everyone else tell you. Honestly, I don't know. I just know that as a man and as modern as the world is for some reason our society expects more of you. Oh ya, maybe it goes back to Adam and Eve. He "The God Almighty" expected more from Adam than Eve. Maybe that why men today still bring home the larger paycheck.

Knowing that and knowing she will someday give you children she might just expects some things for you. Love and Loyalty might just be part of that.