Hi there, Reader:
I was sitting in court today waiting to pay a ticket, that was a correction and the date read 12/24, however thee court thought it said 10/24 and because I didn;t appear in count on time I have to pay a fine.
There are many lessons we learn in life and one of those is a busy life, doesn't justify putting something off that one should take care of right away. The best thing was that it is a highly efficient court that I was at. There are some lessons I thought that I could share with my readers.
One I was off my phone, off my computer took a piece of paper with me to write down any ideas for new blogs I wanted to write. I discovered that I focus so much on what I am doing that everything and everyone around me disappears. Therefore, when my number was called I missed it and had to wait for the next round.
Here is what I learned that might be helpful.
1. Be prepared have all your information with you. Papers, pen and paperwork organized. The court respects and organized. person.
2. When the clerk starts using the words sir, madman and Miss or Mr or any formal word other than your name, take note they are getting frustrated with what you are saying. reword your sentence and start again. Think is she misunderstanding me or is this an you have to accept the moment because it is a court ruling.
3. Accept there are things we can change and those we can't. Even though it is not what you would have chosen their comes a point that you just have to accept it.
4. Sit quietly and listen while you wait. I was listening to my inner self and ignoring the outside world. Therefore, I didn't hear the clerk call me in booth 8. I had to wait for booth 9. What we think is best isn't always best.
5.In life we have to have thee difference to know the difference. Some people deal with it with medication, others prayer and others choose other ways, we have to accept not everyone does things the same way. As long as it achieves the same goals the route in which you got there doesn't matter, does it?
Either way the goal is to finish the race, knowing we did the best we could with what we know. Understanding our own limitations and faults. Be blessed knowing you did the best you could .
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