Have you ever attended a party where everyone is married, or divorced and have a list ready of why they are so good. The married ones talk about marriage as if it is the saving grace upon their lives. The newly single talk about their lives as though starting over is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to them. As if they had total control over their lives. Isn't it funny how no matter what are you are you have a bucket list.
The young say I want...when we all know they are just the cutest local app that ever happen. Even in the industry that I am in we have trends. The one trend that has never stopped is having a bucket list. It doesn't matter what age you are one always has a bucket list. Male or female if your human you have a list. With that said here are some of the items on the bucket list I have encounter.
1. To have a million dollars by by the age of 25.
2. To own my own home.
3. To own my own car.
4. To be respected not only by my peers, who cares if they don't respect me, what's more import is if I don't respect myself.
5. To own a motorcycle. The natural progression of manhood. Tricycle, bicycle, motorcycle. The joys of manhood once they learn to ride, they have the skills for a lifetime.
7. Education, this one I have yet to understand how man see it. Some a nessisity other see it as a luxury. Personally, I feel male or female we all have to have an education at daily living live and the choices we make.
8. Savings, what is more important. What is more important going out with friends or having a savings account? Are your friends paying for your daily living expenses.
9. Now the biggest temptation of them all. Travel. How cute am I that I can flash my pretty eyes and get you to pay for my travel expenses? You laugh at me now but how many of you have that in your bucket list. The goal of young manhood is to see how many things you'll let me get away with. STOP! Does this apply to relationships?
10. Relationships don't always develop into marriage, however someday I hope to have a wife and children. What will be left? My best or my worst? Take time to put that in your bucket list. What exactly is it you hope to bring to the relationship?
Non the less the goal of most man who wed is to help and be helped. What is greater the sence of self or the sence of those who they wed. It is difficult to understand the human psychology of a man who has a greater purpose in life then self. With the desire to help others one helps oneself.
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